Prep the cabbage. Remove the tough outer leaves. Cut the cabbage into quarters through the core, slice out the core, then thinly slice the leaves.
Aim for even shreds so everything cooks at the same pace.
Make the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk together soy sauce, rice vinegar, and honey. Set aside. This helps you move quickly once the pan is hot.
Heat the pan. Set a large skillet or wok over medium-high heat.
Add the neutral oil and let it shimmer. A hot pan is key for keeping the cabbage crisp.
Sizzle the aromatics. Add ginger and garlic. Stir for 20–30 seconds until fragrant.
Don’t let them brown—bitter garlic will throw off the flavor.
Add the cabbage. Pile it in and toss continuously for 3–4 minutes. It should start to soften but keep its crunch. If your pan is crowded, cook in two batches for better browning.
Season and balance. Pour in the sauce and toss for another 1–2 minutes.
The liquid should coat the cabbage without pooling in the pan. Taste and adjust with a pinch of salt or a splash more vinegar if you want extra brightness.
Finish with sesame. Turn off the heat. Stir in toasted sesame oil and sesame seeds.
Add red pepper flakes if you like heat.
Garnish and serve. Top with sliced scallions and a few extra sesame seeds. Serve hot or warm. It’s great on its own, over rice, or next to grilled chicken, tofu, or salmon.